My Super Hot Valentine

Valentines was amazing! Jake suprised me with lunch at our house.

He even decorated doughnuts with my name and one that said J + J

There were roses and a basket of all my favorites!

Then we went to The Grill for dinner it was awesome!



I LOVE MY MAN!

V to the DAY!

This is my first Valentine's with a Valentine! My wonderful husband Jake is surprising me with some sort of a date today! This morning I surprised him with a basket full of his favorite snacks and a little book I put together that tells our story. Here is the book I'll fill in the captions so you can read the story. Sorry if the first pic is too much I think it is hilarious and small so should be appropriate.

Once upon a time there was a handsome prince named Jake Ben

He was far handsomer then any other prince in all the land.

Not only was he handsome but he was talented
He was part of the famous Thrillionaires
He was funny, smart and super talented
He modeled for the most famous fashion companies

If anyone was to look at his life they would think he had everything!


But Jake felt like something was missing


On the other side of the country there was a young woman who thought she had it all. She was fearless and happy with how things in her life were going

Then it happened!
Fate stepped in
Fates name was Christopher Clark

Chris was doing a play at the local college and asked if Jake and Julie would be in the show.



Both accepted and started rehersals for The Heiress

Julie was sitting there just waiting for rehearsal to start when Jake stepped in the room. Immedietly he caught her eye.

Jake noticed Julie from afar and thought...Hmmm she's cute

All during rehersals they flirted and tried to get each others attention.

For months nothing happened



Then finally Jake Ben woke up and knew that Julie was the girl. The one thing he had waited for.

He proposed on a chilly night in a lightly lite park

Julie loved Jake and knew that she was suppose to be with him FOREVER!


On a warm day, May the 24th, to be exact the looked at each other and be together FOREVER!


Jake promised to fight off any other man that tried to love Julie

And to give up coffee

Julie promised to kiss him everyday and to make dinner, when she wasn't sick!

Now that they had vowed to love each other forever the next step was to baby a beautiful baby.



On Jan. 15th Franklin Ben Suazo was born and made the family complete.

Franklin was the perfect example of how much they loved each other.

It was inevitable that Julie and Jake Ben would love each other forever and ever.

With a husband like Jake Julie knew she would be happy ALWAYS!


So that was the whole book. I made him read it to me out loud because anytime I make him something he makes me read it. Oh how the table turned. He cried and we kissed it was a great morning. A great start to my FIRST V-DAY!

Guilt!

Oh the guilt! Being a mom is tough! I took Franklin into the doctor cause he was coughing and turns out he has a little cold. Nothing to worry about yet but could turn into something more. I can't believe how much you can blame yourself for stuff like this, "I shouldn't have taken him out." "Maybe that horrible little boy at the Chinese Buffet gave him the plauge!" All these things run through your head. I'm sanatizing everything in my house and praying it doesn't turn to RSV! Cross your fingers, say a prayer or do a chant. Just help a sister out here I've got to set this guilt aside!

Women's LiB!

I have made a decision! I believe the new law at a four way stop should be LADIES FIRST! I understand there may be some problems that arise, such as, What if two woman arrive at the same time? Should the prettiest go first? That could cause a world of mess! I mean I think I'm a 10 but what if the other drives thinks less of me. What if a person looks very androgynous you know, when you can't quite tell if it's a man or a woman. Yikes, that could be embarrassing! CRASH! I know I know there are a lot of holes in this new law but give me a little time I think I could figure it out. Also let's be honest shouldn't more things in life cater to women? If they did maybe we would have less violence and wars! Just a thought.

Warning!

When your pregnant people are very quick to give advice. They all know how to stop the aches and pains and they have sure fire ways to get that baby out! Truth is when your pregnant this is the last thing you want to hear. I could have hiked, played tennis, gotten frisky with my man or drank a truck load of Castor oil, my baby was not coming out without a little help. As soon as people find out your pregnant, the stories begin. "When I was pregnant my uterus exploded!" It's true one woman really related this story to me! Then when I was late and wanting nothing more then to have my baby the advice rolled in. Now it's the mocking comment about sleep! I'm tired and hormonal people, let's not laugh and point at the woman with the baby. Sincerely, yes, having a baby is one of the hardest thing I think I will ever do. The first two weeks are excruciating. I have been so tired that tears are a common part of my day. When the old lady died on Grey's Anatomy or when I was singing Can't help Lovin Dat Man of Mine to Franklin and missed Jake so much that I burst into tears. It's laughable now but at the time that song truly touched me! I'm exhausted and a little in pain, but once those first two weeks are over it really is livable. It's amazing how quickly you forget the pain of pregnancy, the pain of labor and delivery and the pain of taking care of a newborn and are just able to stare at this little human and fall completely in love! He is precious! Truly my best work to date. Here we go jumping in head first to mommyhood, what do I do? How do I figure this whole thing out? Don't worry everyone, NO ADVICE needed I just want to figure this out all by myself. The not knowing is what makes this all worth it!